Getting Back Together: Every Tarot Card
When you ask about an ex, the card you draw shows what stands between you now and what would have to change. Here is what each of the 78 cards says about getting back together. Tap a card for how they feel, yes or no, and more.
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Major Arcana
The FoolRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Fool suggests that a reunion is only possible if you both treat it as a totally new relationship rather than a continuation of the past.
The MagicianRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Magician indicates that a reconciliation relies entirely on conscious, deliberate communication and direct initiative rather than pure chance.
The High PriestessRegarding the possibility of reconciling with an ex, the High Priestess indicates that the true emotional state of this bond remains tucked behind the veil, advising patience rather than active pursuit.
The EmpressRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Empress suggests that reconciliation is possible only if there is genuine space for slow, unforced healing and mutual nurturing.
The EmperorRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Emperor indicates that reconciliation is only viable if both parties can establish firm boundaries and clear, mature agreements about what went wrong.
The HierophantRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Hierophant suggests that reconciling is only likely if both of you can rebuild the connection on clear, shared agreements and mutual accountability.
The LoversRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Lovers suggests that a reunion requires a conscious, clear choice rather than simply drifting back together out of loneliness or old habits.
The ChariotRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Chariot suggests that reconciliation depends entirely on clear, deliberate choices and resolving the original divides that drove you apart.
StrengthRegarding a reunion with an ex, Strength suggests that reconciliation is possible only through sustained healing, forgiveness, and mutual patience rather than hasty, emotional demands.
The HermitRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Hermit suggests that any reunion is unlikely to happen quickly, as both individuals need significant time alone to reflect on what went wrong.
Wheel of FortuneRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Wheel of Fortune indicates that unexpected contact or a sudden shift in perspective could create a window for communication.
JusticeRegarding a reunion with an ex, Justice suggests that reconciling will only work if both of you can honestly address what caused the separation in the first place.
The Hanged ManRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Hanged Man indicates that an immediate reconciliation is unlikely because the situation remains fundamentally suspended in time.
DeathRegarding getting back together with an ex, Death suggests that returning to the relationship as it used to exist is neither possible nor healthy.
TemperanceRegarding getting back together with an ex, Temperance indicates that a reconciliation is possible only if both people are willing to rebuild the connection slowly, without repeating old, extreme patterns.
The DevilRegarding a reunion with an ex, The Devil indicates that any potential reconciliation is likely driven by unresolved longing, physical habit, or an inability to break the cycle of attachment rather than true healing.
The TowerRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Tower suggests that any attempt to return to the previous dynamic is destined to collapse because the original foundation was fundamentally flawed.
The StarRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Star suggests that emotional healing must take priority over quick reconciliations, though honest reconnection remains possible once both parties release old grievances.
The MoonRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Moon suggests that too many unanswered questions and distorted memories currently stand in the way of a healthy reconciliation.
The SunRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Sun suggests that any reconnection depends on total transparency and whether the old darkness has genuinely cleared.
JudgementRegarding a reunion with an ex, Judgement points to a past connection resurfacing specifically to settle unfinished emotional business.
The WorldRegarding getting back together with an ex, the World typically indicates that the original relationship cycle has reached its natural conclusion.
Wands
Ace of WandsRegarding the possibility of reconciling with an ex, the Ace of Wands suggests a sudden flare-up of mutual curiosity or renewed physical attraction.
Two of WandsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Two of Wands suggests that getting back together is still being weighed from a distance rather than actively pursued.
Three of WandsRegarding a potential reunion with an ex, the Three of Wands suggests that a reconciliation depends on both individuals being willing to adopt an entirely fresh perspective rather than repeating past patterns.
Four of WandsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Four of Wands points toward favorable conditions for reconciliation, provided both parties are seeking a peaceful, welcoming fresh start.
Five of WandsRegarding an ex-partner, the Five of Wands suggests that old friction and unresolved arguments could easily flare up again if contact is renewed right now.
Six of WandsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Six of Wands suggests an overture is most favorable when old grievances have been genuinely resolved and both people can face each other with restored dignity.
Seven of WandsRegarding a potential reunion with an ex, the Seven of Wands shows that significant walls, lingering resentments, or past objections remain firmly in place between you.
Eight of WandsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Eight of Wands suggests that sudden communication or a surprise message could reopen the connection much sooner than anticipated.
Nine of WandsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Nine of Wands indicates that while lingering feelings and shared history remain, both parties are carrying significant emotional baggage.
Ten of WandsRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Ten of Wands indicates that the dynamic between you carries far too much unresolved baggage to make a smooth reconciliation likely right now.
Page of WandsRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Page of Wands suggests that a spontaneous message or casual check-in could easily reopen communication.
Knight of WandsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Knight of Wands points to a sudden resurgence of communication or an unexpected visit driven by impulsive curiosity.
Queen of WandsRegarding a possible reunion with an ex, the Queen of Wands suggests that a rekindled spark is possible, but it depends heavily on your independent self-worth rather than clinging to the past.
King of WandsRegarding getting back together with an ex, the King of Wands suggests that a reunion is possible only if there is a fresh, inspiring vision that fundamentally changes how the two of you interact.
Cups
Ace of CupsRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Ace of Cups indicates that lingering affection or a softening of past resentments exists, creating potential for a fresh start.
Two of CupsRegarding a possible reunion with an ex, the Two of Cups suggests that both individuals still hold fond feelings and that an opportunity to make amends is present.
Three of CupsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Three of Cups suggests that reestablishing contact is most likely to occur in a casual, group setting or through mutual acquaintances.
Four of CupsRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Four of Cups suggests that lingering boredom, unresolved disappointment, or emotional closure currently blocks a meaningful reunion.
Five of CupsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Five of Cups suggests that reconciling right now is hindered by unresolved sorrow, mutual regrets, or lingering fixation on past hurts.
Six of CupsRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Six of Cups strongly suggests that fond memories are resurfacing and that an old sweetheart may soon reach out or be open to reconnecting.
Seven of CupsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Seven of Cups suggests that any desire to reconcile is currently fueled more by nostalgia and romanticized memories than by how the dynamic truly operated.
Eight of CupsRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Eight of Cups suggests that a lasting reunion is unlikely because the departure was driven by deep, structural emotional voids rather than a temporary misunderstanding.
Nine of CupsRegarding a possible reunion with an ex, the Nine of Cups suggests that a renewed connection is possible, but it depends heavily on whether both individuals are emotionally content on their own.
Ten of CupsRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Ten of Cups indicates that a lasting reunion is possible only if both of you share the same foundational vision of home, family, and daily life.
Page of CupsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Page of Cups suggests that a tentative message or gentle olive branch could reopen communication between you.
Knight of CupsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Knight of Cups suggests that a gentle overture or apologetic message is likely to bridge the distance between you.
Queen of CupsRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Queen of Cups suggests that a reunion depends entirely on genuine emotional healing and mutual readiness rather than forcing a quick resolution.
King of CupsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the King of Cups suggests that reconciliation is possible if both individuals can approach the past with calm accountability and true forgiveness.
Swords
Ace of SwordsIf you are asking about reconciling with an ex, the Ace of Swords suggests that a reunion can only happen after an uncompromising, honest conversation clears away the past.
Two of SwordsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Two of Swords indicates that the connection is currently frozen in an emotional deadlock.
Three of SwordsRegarding whether an ex will come back, the Three of Swords suggests that a reunion is unlikely right now because the emotional wounds from the separation remain too raw.
Four of SwordsRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Four of Swords indicates that a period of complete no-contact and emotional healing is essential before any true reconciliation can be explored.
Five of SwordsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Five of Swords suggests that lingering bitterness and past betrayals make a healthy reconciliation unlikely right now.
Six of SwordsRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Six of Swords suggests that a reunion can only be considered if both people have genuinely moved beyond the conflicts that drove them apart.
Seven of SwordsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Seven of Swords suggests that lingering mistrust, evasive habits, or unresolved history make an immediate reconciliation complicated.
Eight of SwordsRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Eight of Swords shows that both parties are currently stuck in rigid mental loops that prevent genuine reconciliation.
Nine of SwordsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Nine of Swords indicates that deep guilt, regret, and lingering emotional trauma currently dominate the connection.
Ten of SwordsRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Ten of Swords suggests that a romantic reunion is very unlikely because the previous bond has suffered a final and complete rupture.
Page of SwordsRegarding a potential reunion with an ex, the Page of Swords suggests that communication may soon open up, though it is more likely to begin as tentative questioning or monitoring each other's lives rather than an immediate emotional reconciliation.
Knight of SwordsRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Knight of Swords suggests a sudden arrival, a blunt message, or unexpected contact that instantly breaks the silence.
Queen of SwordsRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Queen of Swords suggests that a reunion will only be viable if both people can look at the past with total, unsentimental objectivity.
King of SwordsRegarding a reunion with an ex, the King of Swords indicates that any potential reconciliation will depend on logic, accountability, and demonstrable facts rather than nostalgic longing.
Pentacles
Ace of PentaclesRegarding a reunion with an ex-partner, the Ace of Pentacles indicates that getting back together is only viable if both of you can offer concrete changes and a realistic fresh start.
Two of PentaclesRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Two of Pentacles indicates that bringing the past connection back into the present is caught in an ongoing cycle of shifting circumstances and uncertain timing.
Three of PentaclesRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Three of Pentacles suggests that a reconciliation is possible only if both parties treat it as a deliberate, cooperative rebuilding process.
Four of PentaclesRegarding an ex, the Four of Pentacles suggests that getting back together is unlikely in the immediate future because one or both of you remains firmly locked in self-defense.
Five of PentaclesRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Five of Pentacles suggests that separation has caused significant grief and feelings of abandonment, but a healthy reconciliation is unlikely right now.
Six of PentaclesRegarding the possibility of reuniting with an ex, the Six of Pentacles suggests that reconciliation depends on whether the original balance of give-and-take can be restored.
Seven of PentaclesRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Seven of Pentacles suggests that any reconciliation will require prolonged reflection and a willingness to examine past mistakes before moving forward.
Eight of PentaclesRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Eight of Pentacles suggests that getting back together depends entirely on whether both people are willing to work through past behavioral patterns rather than relying on nostalgia.
Nine of PentaclesRegarding the possibility of getting back together with an ex, the Nine of Pentacles suggests that both of you are currently thriving best in your own separate spheres.
Ten of PentaclesRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Ten of Pentacles suggests that getting back together is most plausible if both of you are ready to address foundational issues like family approval, living arrangements, and shared finances.
Page of PentaclesRegarding a reunion with an ex, this card suggests that a rekindled relationship is possible only if both parties treat the reconnection as a fresh, humble beginning rather than picking up where things broke off.
Knight of PentaclesRegarding getting back together with an ex, the Knight of Pentacles suggests that any potential reconciliation will happen very slowly and must be rooted in tangible behavioral changes rather than hasty emotional appeals.
Queen of PentaclesRegarding a reunion with an ex, the Queen of Pentacles suggests that getting back together is most likely if both parties are ready to offer tangible stability, maturity, and emotional safety.
King of PentaclesRegarding getting back together with an ex, the King of Pentacles suggests that a reunion is only likely if both parties can demonstrate tangible maturity and genuine stability.
Questions people ask
Which tarot cards point to getting back together?
Cards about return, repair and second chances, like Judgement, the Six of Cups and the Two of Cups, often lean toward reunion. Read the condition each card gives, not just its tone.
Does a hopeful card mean they will come back?
No card decides it for you. A hopeful card shows that the door is open and what would help; what happens still depends on both of you.